WHO ARE THE REGULAR GAYS?

If you’re here, you’re probably just a dude. You like guy stuff. You’re not crazy political. You enjoy a gay bar, a night with friends, the gym, a show. You maybe have a husband, a mortgage, you could even be raising kids. Your life isn’t an episode of RuPaul’s Drag Race. Maybe you’ve been told, “you don’t seem gay.”

Once, we were the driving force behind normalizing being gay. With gay marriage won, most of us regular gays tuned out of the politics and got busy living our lives. But little by little over the last decade, it seems like every gay male space, physical or virtual, has been overrun by ‘queer’ identified political activists. They want to shame us for having regular lives, not ones dedicated to their struggle. They enforce language rules and push political ideologies that have absolutely nothing to do with being gay. They think it’s wrong to prefer a dick over a cunt.

If you’re a regular gay, you have a live-and-let-live attitude. People can live how they want. But you shouldn’t be a shamed for being a guy who likes dudes. You don’t need to have blue hair, reject capitalism, or support Hamas to be gay.

Regualr gays like us shouldn’t be afraid to be who we are, and that’s what this community is all about. There will be more coming soon, including merch and all the supplies you need to be a Regular Gay